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** I am kind of having a deja vu moment right now that I have written about this in my blog before. If I have, please excuse me for writing it again

There is no one in this world who has not faced any difficulties at all. We all have gone through a few ups and downs. Magnitude may vary but the magnitude is very subjective.We cannot compare one problem with other saying your problem is simple mine is bigger. Atleast I think we never should. Sorry I digressed .

I have gone through many difficult situations. Standing helpless, not knowing whom to ask help for, how to handle certain situations or simply dumbstruck . My first phase would be to ask God for what I want. But when I cannot handle it anymore I surrender. I start talking as if I am talking to a person sitting next to me. I tell what all I have tried and I confess that I cannot handle it anymore. That is the stage when I don’t know what to even ask for.

But when this happens, I almost always have found help. And the way the help arrives is amazing !!!

Most often it is not from the people I expect. For eg. You expect your blood relative to come and sort something out for you. But you get help from a total stranger. Stranger in the sense, a stranger to that situation. You may have never expected him or her to come out of their way to help. But they do. That is what happens to me, most times. I do get help from relatives, friends. But when it arrives from a stranger, it leaves a much bigger impact on you , right!

I call these people my Angels! When I am down, when I am helpless, When I can’t control the things going wrong in my life, these angels arrive! From where I don’t know, how I don’t know but they arrive . They lift my spirit up. They give me the strength to handle the situation. I am forever grateful for that. They make me believe in myself.

If you are going through a difficult phase, from my experience I tell you “Miracles do happen”. You just have to believe !