How is married life?

Till sometime back I used to  ask each every married person the most important question – how is married life?even if it had been a year since the person got married. That used to be my conversation starter. Now after getting married I realized that neither the asking party has any interest in that question nor the answering party. The keyboard automatically responds back as GOOD. Since I am  on the receiving end too now ( yes i have not stopped asking the question yet ) I decided to come up with a better answer than the plain old ‘good’.

First, my mother was not well last 3 months. After lot of check ups , doctors, tests, surgery , tension and more tension , she is better now. Back in Bangalore she is feeling much better now. Recently we went to a doctor and he was shouting at my mother and the reason – he asked my mother to take some tests which she had taken a week back. My mother said o will just check with my daughter once and then give. And he got irritated and started shouting that ‘ what is your doc mobs program something why should you ask her. She must be an engineer doing Google search and telling you things’ . All my mother wanted was a moral support and for a person who has been taking tests after tests for 100 days it is important. Why so angry I ask. Even if I want to try my own medical advice on someone it won’t be my mother, hello!. Now thinking about it I know whom to try those on  👿 . And you should not shout at a patient . You should be patient with a patient that is why we call them patient right? Really, right?

Baj is doing good. Sometimes people ask me ‘ hey do you guys fight’ . I don’t know which is a cool answer, to say that we fight a lot or to say oh we don’t fight at all. And when we fight i cannot keep thinking that oh next  time when someone asks i should say we fight big time because you know o am already busy fighting. So what do we do.If I am angry I take him in our bike in the name of practice on a life threatening ride around our packing lot.  And he in turn asks me to put centre stand in activa ten times. I don’t understand how that thing works. But poor guy he explains me with the help of all physics basics starting from Newton’ s law to sheldon’s law. But even after standing on two legs on that stand, it refuses to move. I think I must be Rajni’s daughter or something. No physics law applies  to me hee haw 😀

I am the most samathu-est child in my family.Many of my relatives have told me that when I was a kid they took me to markets and all and I have never asked for anything. I never ask them to buy me chocolates or balloons and throw tantrums and all. I was always a very very samathu girl. You thought I will say good things about myself and in bracket will say that I have exaggerated a bit. Ha ha. No! 👿 Anyway where were we? Yeah I was the most samathu-est girl in the world. But after college I started throwing tantrums. I keep asking my mom that I want this-that. But amma is strict she will say no and I will go home with a grumpy face. Baj is not that strict. But he has a plan. I go on like oh! I want this, I want that, I want this and that.Being the samathu child I ask him too to buy something nice for himself. His immediate response would be ‘No I already have lots I don’t want anything now’. This line will stop me for a few milliseconds. That’s it. That is the time to quickly drag me out of that Cloth shop and put me in some coffee shop with nice big chocolaty stuff in front of me 🙂 I am a samathu girl 😀

Yesterday on road I saw two different incidents where people were fighting on road as one vehicle hit the other. Fight means physical. I was asking Baj f I take my bike out tomorrow and hit someone, will they hit me even if I ask sorry. Since I didn’t get a convincing reply I wanted to plan everything out. The moment I hit someone even if it is barely two vehicles touching each other , I will immediately fall down with a fake ‘Ahhh I am fainting now’ expression. Yes that is the only way to escape ! But Baj thinks when I take the bike out the whole world will run for their dear life lock themselves up in their home. The Positive Me thinks that way we get a solution for our traffic problem too 😀

OK that’s it for now.

If you feel you dint understand anything in this post and feel as if your brain is blank now then congratulations! Its good to have an empty brain on a Monday morning  as you know empty vessels can hold more food than the already full ones. A week full of load is on the way, be ready Have fun ! 😀


16 thoughts on “How is married life?

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  1. 😀 😀 😀 The line last is super awesome!! How true 🙂

    Hope Amma feels better soon. I will include her in my prayers. And I know there are some really stupid doctors 👿 😡

    LOL on shopping 😛 S sometimes does the same.. makes me feel guilty.. but then I too do it sometimes.. So I have moved across the stage where I am feeling guilty that I am the only one to buy. And next time, shop well and then sit in a coffee shop, bliss feeling 😀

    hahaha.. you guys are too cute.. the kind of punishments you both come up with. I always threaten S that he wont get food next time.. but I end up serving him hot-hot 😦 Fights are a part of life.. we argue and fight a lot entertaining both of us better than a movie, I love it when we fight 😀 *I know I am weird*

    Thankfully I have moved past that “how is married life” question.. Good was my answer too. kind of boring. but then I am now facing the much dreaded question these days “when baby” and feeling the first question was much more easier to answer!

    Felt good reading your post, after a long time. Take care SS.

    1. Thanks a lot GB 🙂
      I am also moving to the next stage . I know ! Bliss ! 😀
      With GB at his side why would he worry about food! 🙂 You guys are cute 🙂
      So GB, how is married life ? 😀
      Thanks dear 🙂 Loved your comment!

  2. Hope Amma gets well soon and is the doc crack or what?! Perhaps, he is frustrated. even I hate the master stand and had a hard time, getting it on track:) You right, let’s empty our mind on a Monday and why just,

  3. Oh I hope Amma is better

    Yep, I do agree on the married life thing..RD and I are married for 7 years and we still get the how is married life question 🙂

    You are a very very chamatu child eh?

  4. LOL at the centre stand. I just cannot put centre stand in my cycle like krystal. Activa is so heavy..
    You guys are cute. I so want to meet you guys especially Baj and ask about his wife’s antics 🙂 When are you coming?? 🙂
    You should write more often. Missed you ..

  5. Summerscript, my first time here..And what a way to begin! lol..I can totally relate to each and everything you have said! And Activa is really heavy…Use the side stand..Thats what I do!

  6. Good to hear from you SS,I will pray for Amma, you both are such a cute couple, you fight so calm, what I remember from my first year is throwing things at him when I get angry. All I can say is you both will move on and a learn a lot from your own experience . Hugs!!

    1. It is not related la? That is exactly what I want. Inime ipdi dan unrelated answers varum if someone asks me how is married life ! 😀
      Amma is better now. Thanks Ani

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